How can I get over a break up?

If you want to get over someone quickly then please forget about the inferior advice you read such as keep yourself busy, be strong or travel and instead focus on the 10 advice listed below which are, in my opinion, the 10 best ways for getting over a breakup in a short period of time:

1) Hope = no recovery from breakups: The main reason people accept the death of loved ones and fail to accept breakups for years is the presence of hope. Your mind will never trigger the recovery process before it makes sure that there is no hope of returning back. To recover faster from breakups kill hope completely by calling the person you broke up with and making sure that this was the end
2)The most dangerous phase : People who live on hope of returning back go a step further by always day dreaming about the person they broke up with, by waiting for him to call and wishing that they meet him in the streets by coincidence. In my article The stages of getting over a breakup i said that this stage of recovery is called bargaining and that the main reason most people never recover fast from breakups is that they remain in the bargaining stage for months and sometimes years.
3) Fix your beliefs to get over a breakup quickly: The movies you watched, the songs you listened to and the culture you got exposed to made you believe in terms such as “The one” or “The Soul mate” while in fact according to the psychology of love there are hundreds of potential partners out there that you could fall in love with and the reason you aren’t meeting any of them is because of the limiting beliefs you acquired from the media. The best and fastest way to get over a breakup is to fix your limiting beliefs by learning more about the psychology of love
4) Don’t keep yourself busy: If you were Hungry, will keeping yourself busy help you forget about food one day? of course not it will just lead to increased hunger later on. You can’t solve a problem, especially if it was a breakup, by acting as if its not there. The right way to get over a breakup quickly is to face the problem and to convince your mind that its over
5)Avoid forming new limiting beliefs: As soon as most people breakup they start listening to sad songs, watching sad movies and even searching the internet for sad breakup quotes. These stuff can do you nothing but reinforce limiting beliefs such as “He was the one” ,”I cant live without him” and the other bla bla that can prevent you from getting over someone fast
6)Restore your social life: Many people isolate themselves from their friends as soon as they get into a relationship. They make their relationship partner the center of their world and that’s why they feel that they lost the whole world when they breakup with him. As soon as you breakup restore the connections back with your friends and relatives so that you find it easier to get over the breakup fast.
7) Its ok to cry: Suppressed emotions can turn into depression or can result in many other bad moods. Express your emotions whenever you feel like it without thinking that there is any hope.
Avoid the person you broke up with for a while: don’t visit his Facebook profile, don’t try to message him and don’t do anything that can make your mind believe that there is hope. The fastest way to get over a breakup is to kill hope completely
9) Burn the pictures, eat the chocolates: right after breakups many people keep looking at the pictures they had together and this convinces the mind that there is some hope in getting back together and that’s why those people never recover quickly. Burn the pictures, eat the chocolates and give away the gifts. When you do so your subconscious mind will strongly believe that recovery is the only way left and it will help you recover faster
10) Get rid of relationship dependency : Many people get into relationships to forget about the pain and the problems in their lives. If you managed to become less dependent on the relationship you will certainly get over breakups faster. Learn how to face life problems instead of escaping to a relationship and your life will be much better

The right way to get over a breakup fast
Try to escape from such a problem by keeping yourself busy, by sleeping for most of the day or by even using drugs and you will only discover that the breakup problem is getting worse.

Kill hope, convince your mind that its over and get rid of your limiting beliefs and you will discover that you are getting over the breakup faster than expected.

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